I followed my intuition when I heard that Marla was going to be in Copperfields Bookstore offering readings. Taking my little Lulu in hand, we entered the dark cavern of the unknown, and experienced a remarkable lady with insight, suggestions and a surprising response from Lulu. Often frightened of strangers, she sat next to Marla, sniffed her and licked her fingers as Marla held them down to her.
Having gotten Lulu out of a kill shelter because of her "fear aggression"- barking and nipping at strangers, it has been frustrating to find ways to help her build trust. I really like the "new to me" training perspective that ignores behavior that doesn't support connection and offering kindness and treats for behavior that creates more harmony in the home. However, it has only gone so far. Marla suggested continuing to socialize her in additional settings. She also indicated that Lulu has a vision issue that may have to do with something coming at her that could have history from her past. This makes sense as she is often ok with strangers until they reach to pet her, especially over her head. The surprise was when Marla said, "I don't know if you two are involved or go to church, but Lulu keeps saying... I want to go to church." My partner and I laughed as I work at a church and sometimes take her along when we are doing set up work. She loves to run around the hallways and explore.
We also received an audio CD and will listen to its soothing meditations and affirmations. I'll keep you posted on my progress.
